Updated: 8 April 2021
…(Its Not What You Think)
By Bobby Rio
Co-creator of: Unlock Her Legs: How to Finally Nail that Hard to Get Girl
Every day I get an email similar to this:
“There is this girl I’m talking to. I really want her to be my girlfriend. What can I say to her?”
Here is my answer: Nothing you can ‘say’ will make her fall in love with you.
In fact, you will usually “blow it” if you attempt to let a girl know how you feel (especially if it’s early on.)
Here’s the problem most guys run into…
Once they like a girl they think they need to express this to her…
they think that “if she knows how much I like her” she’ll want to be my girlfriend.
Love is psychological.
Women (and men) fall in love due to a psychological process that occurs in our own mind.
Women don’t fall in love while they are with you…
She falls in love while she is away from you thinking about you…
And the more you can get her thinking about you….
The more she will begin to convince herself that she is in love with you.
In the “Seduction Weapons” portion of The Scrambler I teach 12 weapons of seduction…
These are 12 things that will keep her thoughts focused on YOU when you’re not around.
12 Weapons of Seduction
The first and easiest of the 12 weapons is ambiguity…
Women love drama (how else do you think there would be 5 different Housewives of (insert city) shows on TV?)
If you want to keep her attention… you’ve got to provide her that drama she craves.
Ambiguity is a great way to do this.
You are sending her mixed signals.
You are showing her multiple sides of your personality…
Sometimes you make her feel like she excites you…
Sometimes you make her feel like you are losing interest and she bores you…
Well, if you think back on the girls you fell in love with…
Chances are she made you feel this exact way.
Chances are she sent a lot of mixed signals.
Am I correct?
I didn’t invent the game. But I play to win.
There are 11 more seduction weapons in Unlock Her Legs (some much sneakier than this.)
Remember “attention” is a commodity.
We only have so much of it.
He who occupies the most of her attention wins.
It’s all laid out on the next page…
HOW TO MAKE A GIRL LIKE YOU,
HOW TO GET A GIRL TO LIKE YOU,
HOW TO MAKE GIRLFRIEND,
POEMS TO MAKE HER FALL IN LOVE,
HOW TO GET A GIRL WHO HAS A BOYFRIEND,
HOW TO GET YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO LOVE YOU,
TEXT MESSAGES TO MAKE HER FALL IN LOVE,
HOW TO MAKE MY GIRLFRIEND LOVE ME,
HOW TO FALL BACK IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE,
WORDS TO MAKE HER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU,
FALLING IN LOVE WITH HER,
HOW TO MAKE MY GIRLFRIEND LOVE ME AGAIN,
I WANT TO MEET SOMEONE AND FALL IN LOVE,
HOW TO MAKE A GIRL HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU,
THINGS TO SAY TO MAKE HER FALL IN LOVE,
LOVE WORDS TO MAKE HER FALL IN LOVE,